During a PSYCH-K® session with a friend, the following belief statement came up for him: “I give love easily to others”. He looked at me with a confused expression and said, “I don’t have a problem with that.” Behind him, his mother and girlfriend were secretly giving me a thumbs up (indicating that that was the belief they thought he most needed to work on). Even though he didn’t “get it”, he decided to work on it anyway and trust the process. Later that evening, I attended a party at his home, and his mother and girlfriend both came running up to me excitedly, asking, “What did you do to him? He is so much more loving.” They had watched his session earlier that day (with his permission), so they knew what transpired. Apparently, they could see a profound change in him. Sometimes, the beliefs are so deeply rooted, that we fail to see how they affect our behavior, even though others can see it clearly.
